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Ni se pobrila že leto dni, mož pa jo pri tem podpira. Kaj pa vi pravite na to?

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Some time ago I gave myself a word that I won’t remove my bodyhair unless I will know that shaving them is entirely my decision. I wanted to stop ads brainwashing my mind & give up thinking “I should shave because everyone is doing this”. This is my task list which I made to achieve my goal: -get to know how my body hair will look without any interference, – reach the acceptance to all my body hair while looking in the mirror, – stop being ashamed in front of the others, even if they whisper and stare at me, – be free from need to explain “oh it’s just project, I know it looks terrible/unsexy/masculine/etc. It’s temporary you know”, – be free from belief that I have to fulfill someone’s expectation about my appearance, – and finally be free from fear that others will reject me if they will know how I REALLY look like. I knew I will need some time to do my job. It’s been more than a year now! ⏳ How about your hairy journey Dear Woman? How do you feel about being unshaved? What do you think about other hairy women? Maybe you want add some items to the list? *second pic is without any filter #goals #bodyhair #bodyhairdontcare #acceptance #challenge #bodyhairmovement #natural #realme #hairywoman #naturalwoman #stopshaving #bodyacceptance #societystandards #beauty #beautystandards #questioning #finding #thetruth #realwoman #nofilter #poland #wgdyni #niegolesie #natura #kobieta #wyzwanie #cel #akceptacja #cialo #naturalne

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28-letna Sonia Cytrowska se je depilirala vse od svojega dvanajstega leta, pred letom dni pa se je odločila, da tega ne bo več počela. Danes preko svojih objav na instagramu promovira naravno lepoto in želi na tak način spodbuditi in opogumiti tudi druge ženske, da se ji pridružijo na tej “kosmati” misiji.

“Želim vam pokazati svoj hrbet, na katerem so dlake. Vem, da imajo številne ženske kosmat hrbet in da se zaradi tega počutijo manj ženstveno. Pa za to res ni potrebe. Mediji tega sicer ne prikazujejo, vendar je to nekaj normalnega,” trdi Sonia. Priznala je sicer, da njenemu možu ta odločitev, da se neha depilirati, sprva ni bila preveč všeč, vendar se je sčasoma navadil in jo pri tem podpira. “Mojemu možu ta sprememba ni bila všeč, vendar me zaradi nje tudi ni mislil zapustiti. Odločil se je, da bo zaradi mene spremenil svoje lepotne standarde,” še pove Poljakinja.

 

I want to say I AM SORRY!! I noticed that I was making spam to you with this HOW MANY likes I get or HOW MANY people starts following me. I feel that counting likes is pointless and waste of time, cause I know that there are people watching me and my project in absolute silence. Followers doesn’t tell me if I do impact on my “target group”, because my followers are mostly men… and my wish was to get in touch with WOMEN who are ready to rethink subject “my natural body” and to say them: “Your bodyhair is ok! Tell me, what do you feel about your body? Are you sure that what you feel is 100% yours? Maybe it comes from media? Maybe someone told you that you should be ashamed of your natural look? Please consider it with yourself.” Looking at the numbers of likes and followers didn’t make me more happy. I wasn’t focused at my REAL PURPOSE of this movement, #bodyhairmovement Now I want to show you my last body part with hair. It’s my back. I know that lot of womem has it and they feel less feminine. You don’t have to. It’s NORMAL. Maybe media doesn’t show it, but it is still normal It’s good to be back again ☺ Hope to see you soon! #hairybody #hairywoman #naturalwoman #back #hairyback #sorry #stopcounting #bodyhairdontcare #iamback #noshave #beyourself #nofilter #effyourbeautystandards #effyourbodystandards #bodypositive #feminine #feminist #feminism #womenpower #niegolesie #feministka #feminizm #kochamsiebie #akceptacja #nieliczlajkow #polishwoman #naturalnakobieta #wgdyni #powerfromplants

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At first I wanted to post some interesting quote from wise man about being beautifully perfect in our imperfection. But I won’t. It is too easy to read it and even easier to forget it. And I want you to think, not just repeat! I believe that there is only one thing which truly matters: YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE! So don’t listen to me, don’t agree with me or anyone else, check what’s good for you, or don’t check. I don’t have to be right, right? Maybe it’s wrong and inappropriate this all “being bodyhair positive”?! Of course you can hate or don’t accept your body for his natural look, you can spend your priceless time and your hard earned money to torture it (ups, sorry, I mean making it looking good and sexy and acceptable by society…) by waxing etc., you can do with yourself what the hell you want! But… it means that I can do everything I want too. I won’t point out on the street your shaved: legs, armpits, underarms, belly, back, mustache, toes… and you? You will be silent either. That seems to be fair enough. By the way, you know… it seems to be good in my skin, with all my hair, which made me so sensitive, soft, natural, 100% me in myself. But, maybe it is all lies, maybe I am just insane. You don’t have to believe me #bodyhairmovement #dontshave #bodyhairdontcare #naturalwoman #hairywoman #hairyeverything #keepyourownperspective #donthurt #dontjudge #niegolesie #wgdyni

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Priznava pa, da je imela tudi sama trenutke, ko je dvomila o tem, ali naj še nadaljuje in vztraja pri svoji odločitvi. “Prijelo me je, da bi stekla v kopalnico in vse pobrila. Na trenutke sem se počutila kot dlakava spaka, toda potem sem si vzela nekaj minut za razmislek. Spoznala sem, da imam rada svoje kosmate pazduhe, goste obrvi, sramne dlake in celo dlake na svojem trebuhu in hrbtu. Sprejemam jih in se jih ne sramujem,” zaključuje.

 

My husband asked me some time ago: -Why are posting so ugly pictures? -What does it mean to you “ugly”? -Not attractive, not artistic. -Do you know why? Because I am posting about NORMAL body. Not photoshoped, not iluminated in special way, not posed to look sexy. Media and our minds are overloaded of pictures which shows only one “beautiful” body image and that’s why is seems normal to them. But daily life is not like that, it is: ordinary, hairy, with curves, discoloration on the skin, useful not sexual. -You are right… // So! Appreciate your body everyday! Thanks to him you can enjoy life. It does good job for you in every second. And you even don’t have to think about it! Love it and it will be serving you for long time. Be grateful for the fact that you have it. No matter how it looks like – it’s yours! /// Mój mąż zapytał mnie ostatnio: -Dlaczego dodajesz takie brzydkie zdjęcia? -Co to znaczy dla Ciebie brzydkie? -No takie w ogóle nie atrakcyjne, artystyczne ani trochę. -Wiesz dlaczego? Bo piszę o NORMALNYM ciele. Nie odpicowanym, nie najkorzystniej oświetlonym, bez pozowania żeby wyglądać seksownie. Media i nasze głowy są już tak przeładowane jedynym “pięknym” wizerunkiem ciała, że traktują to jako normalność. A przecież codzienność jest inna: zwyczajna, owłosiona, z fałdkami, przebarwieniami, użyteczna a nie seksualna. -W sumie… masz rację. // Dlatego doceniaj swoje ciało codziennie! Dzięki niemu możesz korzystać z życia. Robi dla Ciebie dobrą robotę w każdej sekundzie, a Ty nawet nie musisz o tym myśleć. Kochaj je, żeby służyło Ci jak najmilej. I bądź wdzięczny/a za to, że je masz. Obojetnie jakie jest – jest Twoje! #bodypositive #loveyourself #dailylife #hairybody #hairywoman #noshave #hairylegs #hairyarmpits #bodyhair #hairy #fitornotfit #selfcare #naturalbeauty #natural #codzienność #polishgirl #kochajsiebie #naturalna #owłosiona #kobieta #niegolesie

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